Pregnant and Horny

Pregnant and Horny
September 27 09:47 2016 image: quotesgram.com

Pregnancy makes you go through a lot of weird and awkward stages. A woman’s libido (sex drive) usually fluctuates a lot during pregnancy.

Some days they don’t even want to think about engaging in any sexual activity. Other days they have a sudden unexplainable urge to make love. You are pregnant and horny.

How do you deal with this situation? It affects not just you, but also the marriage.

It is in the best interest for both the partners to educate themselves about what really happens during these nine months or so.

Low Libido

This usually happens in the first trimester.

Your body is adapting to new conditions. You feel tired most of the time. If you are not busy taking medicines, puking and doing chores, you’ll catch yourself taking a nap.

Your lower body is aching. Sometimes you lose balance due to change in the center of gravity.

These days you are simply not interested in showing in sex.

Let your partner know to not take this personally. It is completely normal and part of your pregnancy journey.

High Libido

Usually, with the end of the first trimester, your body completes adapts itself.

But something is different. You are not your usual self anymore. In fact, you are hornier than ever. Really pregnant and horny.

Your partner kinds of freaks out. He has a difficult time adjusting this to new you. He is even intimidated by the fact that he might not be able to satisfy you.

This change occurred due to increased sensitivity, blood flow in the pelvic area. Not to forget, the change in hormone secretion makes your libido jump through the roofs.

What to do

This is a sensitive topic.

The first thing you can do is to talk to your partner about it.

There are also few things you can consider to make things spicy.

You can let it flow naturally. Let your partner know about your sexual urges. Adjust accordingly.

You might experience vaginal secretion. While this may be embarrassing, think of the flip side. You don’t need a lubricant anymore to enjoy a painless penetration.

You can still make love in showers but you have to be extra cautious. Your change in the center of gravity due to the bulge might make you lose the balance. So, the last thing you ever want to happen is to fall on your stomach while having sex.

Pregnant women experience a lot of mood swings. The secretion of hormones fluctuates a lot during pregnancy. This will make your mood vary wildly. You might have an uncontrollable urge to cry or to laugh for no reason.

And some husbands don’t feel like penetrating when the baby is in there. Let them know the baby is protected completely. And on the top, he won’t know a thing about mommy and daddy’s love making the session.

Closing Thoughts

Every mom has to go through this ordeal.

You don’t have to think the situation as anymore awkward. In fact, it was because of your sex that you landed here in first place.

So, get on with the flow.

It’s just matter of few months!

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